Bullying is a major issue that affects many children. Most bullied youth admit that they have been bullied since their first day at school. Bullies have many sorts, they may occur as teasing or jealousy but more to monopolize (Conquer).
Being bullied can make young people feel unsafe, and the pressure to
deal with it makes them feel unhappy. What's sad is that the bully's attitude
makes the kids not in the mood to play with their friends when the bully is
around. It's hard to keep your mind on schoolwork if you're worried about how
you're going to meet and deal with bullies during the school day.
Bullying is difficult for everyone not only those who face it but for the
parents instead. Bullying can make a school place filled with fear which can
become a violent station for children and can also be stressful for everyone.
Although bullying is something that is sometimes acknowledged as a part
of growing up or playing a child, imagine if you were a child who was singled
out as one of the victims of everyday bullies, be it physical, mental, or
through cyberbullying. All these types of situations can trigger anyone to do
something they never thought would happen to them before.
Many children dare to commit suicide because they cannot deal with this
bullying attitude, seriously they interfere with life. Bullying is a form of
persistent violent behavior among senior youth, especially in the school life
of teenagers they are usually the target victim, and their aggressive behavior
occurs continuously over time because they intend to conquer.
To stop this increasingly aggressive bullying scenario, parents of bullied
children should take the time to make a detailed investigation of the bullying
problems their children are facing. Parents should go to meet and inform the
school about bullying that their children do not like. Avoid direct contact
with the bully or the bully's parents, as this can lead to unwanted
situations, especially from the bully or both.
Dangerous for your child, that's the difference between a bully and the
bullied victim, often bully parents are as aggressive as their children.
conflict will probably occur, and fights will start between both sides the
parents. Therefore, to end this tradition, please research your children's
development with the help of a trusted person or the counseling teacher who is
on duty at your child's school.
Investigate why bullying and victimization happen. The study can be
divided into four categories, the first category is to determine why bullying
occurs, and the second is to find out who is the bully to study their
prevalence. Third is to understand the aggressiveness of the torturer to
understand the motive of their behavior, and last but not least is to get
information about the behavior of the bully.
Returning to the unluckiness of the child or victimized person, review
or research the risk that they experience and try to eliminate the factors
that put them into a worse consequence of maltreatment. After reviewing the
conditions or situation of the child, ensure that they may not be the beginner
of the motive that happens to them.
In some cases, child abuse exists because some put others down at first then
the thing came contrary. It is similar to the
"Invention systemize their design" because the tormentors are dressing
in the direction of the victim's former attitude.
Whereas tyrants of bullying victimized have been mastered by the poor
person after that. The worse involvement in bullying is a physical activity
that brings sickness or pain to the victim, the greater this problem happened
the more difficult to settle with it physically because lots of repeated
incidents have been seen and are being studied in various complaints.
The culture or understanding of bullying does happen all over the world. But
if you want to say that it is a normal matter, it has already become a
"Matter". The assertion of the word "Matter" has created a problem matter. So
terminating the behavior of bullies matters, no matter in what department or
group of life you are in, just don't, bully harass people's life.